How to Meet Neighbors: Simple Tips for Getting off on the Right Foot

There are a lot of things on the to do list when you move into a new house or apartment, and while meeting your neighbors might not be at the top of it, it’s something you should try to do sooner rather than later. Our homes are more than just the physical space where we keep all of our things. They’re the buildings and neighborhoods we inhabit, full of people who, for better or for worse, we share this larger definition of home with.

I’ve lived in places where I’ve met all of my neighbors, and places where I’ve never once said a word to the people who inhabited the space on the other side of my walls. And without fail, I’ve always felt more settled in the homes where I also knew the people around me. Having a friend – or at least a friendly face – nearby goes a long way toward establishing feelings of home and community after moving. It also makes it much easier to discuss any issues that might arise, or to get that proverbial cup of sugar when you’re halfway through making cookies and realize you’ve run out.

When you’re figuring out how to meet neighbors in your new home, think authenticity over forced interaction. You don’t have to show up at someone’s door with a Jello mold, but do try to organically establish a friendly rapport that you can build upon as time goes on. Not quite sure how to do that? The tips below should you give you a good jumping off point.

Smile and say hello

Get involved

Ask some questions

Spend time outside

Lend a hand

Ask for help

Host a welcome party

Meeting your neighbors doesn’t have to be a scary process. Think of it less as networking and more as just a pleasant way to further ingratiate yourself in your new neighborhood. Most of the people you meet aren’t going to become good friends, but having friendly acquaintances nearby will help support a pleasant environment and make you feel more at home. Be approachable, allow relationships to progress naturally, and never underestimate the power of a genuine smile to brighten both your day and someone else’s.